Starting or creating a family office
How Can the Office Evaluate Outside Service Providers Before Engaging Them?
Short answer. Start with the office's purpose and decide what expertise it needs, what work must remain private, and what the team can handle itself. Then check each provider's qualifications, fit, cost, and working terms. Assign someone to oversee the relationship and review whether it still makes sense over time.
Evaluate a provider against a defined need, then decide whether the work belongs outside the office. A referral or familiar name can open a conversation, but it does not establish that the provider is qualified, fairly priced, or right for your family.
Define the Need Before Comparing Providers
Start with the family office's purpose, priorities, and areas of expertise. Identify the work that the office can manage internally, the work that calls for specialized skills, and any information or activity the family considers too private to share. This keeps the selection tied to the office's needs instead of a vendor's sales pitch.
Consider the expected workload and how often the expertise will be needed. A function required only occasionally may be better handled by an outside specialist. Work that requires fast responses, close coordination, or knowledge of sensitive family matters may call for a dedicated internal owner, even if outside expertise is still useful.
Check Qualifications, Fit, and Terms
Ask candidates to explain their relevant experience and how they would approach the work. For investment related services, assess whether the provider's stated strategy fits the family's objectives, and examine performance across different environments where relevant. A track record can inform the review, but it does not predict future results on its own.
Set clear expectations in writing. Define the scope, deliverables, timing, fees, reporting, confidentiality, conflicts, and who can give instructions. Where the provider's work touches legal, tax, or regulatory questions, talk with your attorney or CPA about the appropriate requirements and terms.
Assess the full operating cost, including the staff time needed to brief the provider, coordinate their work, review deliverables, and resolve gaps. Every outside relationship adds coordination and expense. Compare that total with the cost and practical demands of doing the work internally. The family office cost calculator can help frame that comparison.
Set an Owner and Review the Relationship
Give one person in the office responsibility for the relationship. That person should know what was agreed, route requests to the right people, monitor deadlines, and raise problems early. The family can retain approval authority over major decisions while the relationship owner handles routine coordination.
Before signing, ask how the provider will protect confidential information, disclose conflicts, and respond when a key contact is unavailable. Check references and credentials using a process suited to the role. For a critical function, document how the office will assess quality and what would trigger a change in provider.
Review the relationship on a regular schedule. Compare the work delivered with the original scope, check the fees and coordination burden, and decide whether the service remains necessary. A provider that suited the office at launch may not fit as its needs change. The partners and service providers guide and operational processes guide can help you define those responsibilities. For selection standards, see the questions to ask before hiring an executive.
Any new vendor or service provider brings along new responsibilities for coordinating between parties and, of course, new costs that will ultimately show up in the bottom line.
Sources: How to Start a Family Office, The Single Family Office. Informational only, not financial, legal or tax advice.
