Starting or creating a family office

How Can a Family Determine Whether a Proposed Office Has Enough Work to Justify Its Cost?

Short answer. List the recurring work the family needs done, estimate the time and expertise each task requires, and compare that demand with the cost of staffing or outsourcing it. Include coordination and oversight. For intermittent workloads, a lean office with outside specialists may fit better than permanent roles.

Estimate the work before committing to an office. A family can justify the cost when recurring responsibilities, specialized needs, and oversight add up to a clear role for the office. Start with the tasks the family wants handled, not with a preferred org chart or a candidate for the first hire.

For each task, record how often it occurs, who handles it now, what expertise it requires, and what happens if it is delayed or missed. Include investment reporting, entity administration, bill payment, adviser coordination, family communication, and responsibilities unique to your family. Separate regular work from occasional projects that can go to an outside provider.

Measure the Workload and Its Timing

Look at a normal operating cycle and note recurring deadlines. Record the meetings, reviews, and requests that come with them. Then identify peak periods, such as a transaction, a liquidity event, or a succession process. A calendar often makes demand easier to see than a broad list of desired services. It can show whether work is steady enough to occupy an employee or comes in bursts that call for outside help.

Include the time needed to supervise vendors and check their work. Outsourcing reduces some internal production, but it adds coordination responsibilities and fees. In my experience, families can be surprised by how much they spend across outside providers. Review each relationship for a defined purpose, expected workload, and a clear owner inside the office.

Compare Capacity With the Full Cost

Build two practical versions of the operating plan. One can use internal staff for work that needs regular attention, with specialists engaged when required. The other can rely more heavily on providers. Compare each plan's total cost and the family or executive time it requires. Include salaries and compensation, along with technology, administration, and vendor oversight.

Keep the comparison tied to work the office will actually perform. A proposed role should have defined recurring responsibilities and a sensible amount of work. A position that depends on occasional projects may be better sourced externally, while a steady need for control, coordination, or confidential handling may support an internal role. The family office cost calculator can help organize the cost side of this comparison.

Choose a Scope That Can Change

Start with services that address the family's clearest needs. Define what the office will own and coordinate. Also specify what stays with advisers or family members. Review the workload after the office has operated long enough to see actual demand. If duties are growing, document what has changed before adding permanent cost. If the volume is light, keep the arrangement flexible.

For many families, the right answer is a mix of internal capacity and outside expertise. My book How to Start a Family Office describes how families make these choices based on their size, capabilities, and the work they want to keep close. Use the guide to partners and service providers to think through which functions belong inside the office. You can also use the family office readiness score to consider whether the family is prepared to take on the operating responsibilities.

Keep the decision grounded in documented demand. When workload and ownership align with costs, the office has a practical reason to exist. If the plan relies on vague future needs, define a smaller scope and revisit it as those needs become real.

Any new vendor or service provider brings along new responsibilities for coordinating between parties and, of course, new costs that will ultimately show up in the bottom line.

Richard C. Wilson, The Single Family Office

Sources: How to Start a Family Office, The Single Family Office. Informational only, not financial, legal or tax advice.